Soundtrack:  If You're Happy - Clap Your Hands
Don’t ever lose your ability to see the funny side of things. . .



Relationship with Laughter

Now, you are mine
Bubbling up
Releasing outward
Can't hold you in
Must let you flow out
Oh, I CAN share you with others
But I don't need to share you
I can laugh out loud all by myself
And, NOW I can laugh with God
at myself . . . Divine Laughter
~ Deborah Saunders
Dawn Cove Abbey Garden -Lupins - July 2007
You need to realize that my grandmother was a lady. She’d been an executive secretary in
her working days, and there was a dignity about her that somehow hadn’t translated into
subsequent generations. Genteel, she was. Prim. Proper even.

That’s why the budgie picture is such a delight. If it is possible for my grandmother to
relax enough to tolerate a bird in her hair – and allow a photograph! -- then it is possible
for anyone to let go, let down and play. She knew what could happen. She knew what birds
do . . . and she yet, let it sit there, let this fragile little creature just be.

The approaching summer will bring opportunities, and if we’re not careful we’ll find
ourselves too busy . . . too tired . . . too dignified . . . too preoccupied . . . to step outside
the lives of our safe and comfortable everyday. We'll be too worried about being careful .
. . to concerned about acting our age . . . too busy thinking about tomorrow to pay attention
today.

And yet: When something knocks on your door and asks, “Can [your name] come out to
play?”, remember. You can’t know if this invitation is one of many or the last one that may
come your way. Life is like that.

I have a new bumper sticker that says, “
Don’t Postpone Joy.” I think this is what Alice
Walker had in mind when she wrote, in The Color Purple, “
I think it irritates God when you
walk by the color purple in a field somewhere and don’t notice it
” (Those of you who
remember the book will realize I’ve tidied up the verb somewhat, although I admit the
sentiment was more effective written her way!)

Joy, playfulness, doing your version of letting a budgie sit on your head – these are our
human way of saying “thank you” to the Universe for the gift of life – long life, short life,
whatever weeks and days and years remain.

So, here’s my summer wish for you: Let the budgie of happiness sit on your head. Recognize
there are consequences, but live with it. Let your motto be, "
Don't Postpone Joy."
Make room for happiness, make time for play. Every day.


May the Budgie of Happiness Sit on Your Head


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May the Budgie of Happiness Sit on Your Head
by Maureen Killoran, MA, DMin
"Life, love, and laughter -- what priceless gifts to give our children." ~Phyllis Dryden
The Budgie Of Happiness
My grandmother, Mimi, was a great solitaire player. My
family legacy is mainly memories, so I especially cherish my
few tangible mementos. Especially a photograph of Mimi,
when she was in her mid-70’s, sitting at the kitchen table,
solitaire game in progress and a small green “budgie” (aka
parakeet in this country) atop her head.
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